A Passionate Marriage: How To Have It & Keep It

A Passionate Marriage: How To Have It & Keep It

When we first become engaged to the woman or man of our dreams, we envision a certain amount of perfection that will follow in our marriage. We see our life filled with smiles, laughter, passionate kisses, maybe some children. We don’t dare imagine life without a few little bumps in the road, because after all we are trying to be honest with ourselves. What happens after we say “I Do” is where the rubber meets the road. All of our hopes and dreams we have separately, jointly and even unspoken ones… all join together. The brightness of a newly married life and romantic adventure wears off a bit. After years it may fade away completely.

 Why would this happen? Why is it accepted as part of the way things are when you get married? At Spark This Marriage, we reject that lie. We understand that marriage is a life long romance that requires us to be vigilant to guard it and our hearts. The enemy of our souls is seeking to kill and destroy and our marriage, Christian Marriage, tops his list of things to destroy. There are a lot of reasons why he does this. Mainly because marriage is holy before God and he hates everything called holy. Another big reason is that when we are married before the Lord, we are blessed, strong and bonded in unity. Literally that must make the devil’s skin crawl.

When we remember all these things, we should stand a bit taller and be ever more committed to protect and strengthen our relationship with our husband or wife. We know that satan prowls about like a hungry lion and breaking a godly marriage is pretty delicious to him. So, how can we strengthen and protect our marriage from that? It takes a hard and focused stand on the issue. We must eliminate everything, yes every thing, that comes between the husband and wife relationship. If our marriage is full of bickering there is a struggle for power in the marriage. That will take some serious denying of your flesh and giving God control. If we are spending too much time or too much money on “things” or “hobbies” then cut that out too. Sensual movies, sensual books, victorias secret (soft porn!) have no place in your marriage. Ever. Don’t fool yourself if you think you are not affected by it. Your eyes & heart should only be for your sweetie. God’s word is clear on the matter.

Our children, according to scripture, are NOT ahead of our spouse or the Lord.
The Biblical order to your priorities is:
1. God
2. Husband/Wife
3. Ourselves
4. Children
5. Other family, Friends, Serving in Church
6. Exterior world

When we are at worship practice 3 nights a week, playing cards or out with friends frequently, shopping for kicks, on the net chatting or facebooking, texting, at soccer practice & games, pta meetings, television, netflix and so on… we are spending way too much time NOT being married or a family. We have our priorities out of whack.

It then makes sense that we will have a cascading failure of our marriage and family!

If we take the time to prioritize our walk- God first, Our husband or wife second- then our life will shift back into proper focus. No longer will chaos, busyness, fighting, power struggles, passive aggressive remarks and behavior, sexual problems in the bedroom and our children’s behavior plague us. All of these things do straighten out if we genuinely turn all of this over to the Lord.

On the subject of our bedrooms, it is a taboo topic for some reason in the Church. Secret sin abounds in this area. It is not a place to manipulate, coerce or avoid and make excuses. The marriage bed is pure and holy and good and safe. A place of trust and intimacy. God says so in Song Of Solomon, “Drink deeply!” Passion and romance are very good and He wants us all to have it. When we begin to treat our husband or wife like they are a treasure to us, with honor, with adoration, we will see a change. Make an diligent effort and do it regularly. Progress may be slow at first, but keep praying and keep up the good work.
Your marriage is worth it. Every little step counts. If you need help, a fantastic book “The Love Dare” is available at the link below.

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Flattering Lingerie For EVERY Woman

Question: What type of lingerie is best for me?

There are several styles that most flatter the womanly figure: Babydoll, Chemise, Corset and Bustier.

Babydolls and Chemise are similar styles. They are both short and fitted pieces of lingerie that are typically modest. To add a hint of mystery or seduction, you can choose a chiffon babydoll or chemise. They are perfect for a romantic evening, or a night of feeling pampered.

Babydoll:
If you feel like flirting, a babydoll is the way to go. Babydolls are fitted in the bust with a full skirt. As a result, it’s important to get the bust size right when purchasing a babydoll. Sometimes babydolls have a stretch bodice that makes it easier to size for full figured women. Babydolls are well suited to women with a pear shape as they hug your curves on top and fall gently on your hips.
It should be said though that the Babydoll really does flatter every figure.

Chemise:
Chemise, on the other hand, accentuates and creates curves. When you want to feel luxurious, a beautiful silk or charmeuse chemise will feel soft on your skin and hug your curves. For more comfort, you can choose a stretch chemise and still be pampered.

Corsets and Bustiers:
Modern corsets are much more comfortable than corsets of yesteryear. They are elegant, form fitting, sexy, and provide the slimming effect and bust lifting that most women look for in lingerie. They flatter every figure.

Corsets and Bustiers are the daring women’s lingerie. They are very similar in style, as both are boned and fitted on the torso. They have a very slimming effect on your figure. The major difference between a corset and a bustier is that bustiers often have built in cups for support whereas corsets do not.

Corsets and bustiers do not size the way clothes do, they size like a bra. You usually have a round the back measurement and a cup measurement, just like a bra but you are recommended to give yourself one size more around the back allowing for extra movement. The size noted for our corsets and bustiers is the band size, so if you where a 40DD, your bustier or corset size would be 40. If you want some extra room, you would order a 42.

Growing And Falling More Deeply In Love

Strengthen your marriage and add some spice!

Every marriage can be full of fun, passion and romance, but it doesn't need to stop there! In addition, we each can have a marriage of deep friendship, honor, trust, peace and joy. It's not as tall of an order as you may think. Our marriages are worth every effort to kindle the spark! It surprises a lot of people to hear that many marriage issues work out when we are more giving in the bedroom. It does not hurt to shore up other areas though.
After all, this is a lifelong romance and it deserves our attention!

These items have been specially chosen to help you both grow and fall more deeply in love with each other.

Simply Romantic Nights:
Igniting Passion In Your Marriage
HOT SELLING ITEM 

The Complete Husband
FOR SERIOUS MARRIAGES!
Your marriage will never be the same. It will only get better!

The Love Dare

WE ALL NEED THIS ONE!
Includes an interactive quiz!

Caring for Lingerie and the Romantic Results!

Question: How should I wash my lingerie?

Your sexy lingerie will last much longer and retain its color and feel if you wash it all by hand. We recommend you buy our Lingerie Wash or woolite. Our Lingerie Wash smells divine and properly cleanses your delicates. Line drying is much preferred to a machine dryer.

Not to mention, there is a certain sexiness generated when you see your lacy thong panties swaying softly in the breeze. It kindles a spark. It's romantic. It reminds our sweetie of close encounters past. It makes a heart beat a bit faster.

This simple thing makes a much bigger impact than most ladies realize!

We recommend you wash all lingerie before wearing.

Many moods of the bedroom

Lingerie, like those who wear it, has many moods.

That's why Spark This Marriage caters to every taste, with collections that make every day—and every occasion—uniquely special.
Classic… romantic… dramatic… often provocative and always alluring.
For both ladies and gentlemen. So don't wait, pick up some goodies right now and inspire some serious sparking.